你對性愛準備好了嗎？ 

Are you ready for sex? 

 

每個人都在不同的階段才能夠對性愛作好充份準備，一切只有你自己才能明白。以下的問題列表可以幫助你了解自己是否已對性愛作好準備，如果你對問題的答案有任何疑問，你最好再等待一下。 畢竟，你的第一次只有一次。 

Everyone is ready for sex at a different stage and only you can know if it's right for you. This checklist will help you decide whether you're ready. If you have any doubts, it's better to wait. You only get one first time, after all. 

 

對於「與別人發生性行為」這一主意，你感到自然嗎？ 

Do you feel happy at the idea of having sex? 

 

你覺得無論在身體上、情緒上與心理上，都準備好迎接性行為嗎？ 

Do you feel physically, emotionally and mentally ready for sex? 

 

你知道什麼是性愛承擔嗎？插入式的性行為只是給予對方性快樂的其中一種方法，為對方口交及手淫也是一種樂趣。但必須謹記，口交亦有機會感染性病毒，因此你亦需要配合安全套或口腔保護膜覆蓋該部位。 

Do you know what sex entails? Penetrative sex is just one way to give each other sexual pleasure, but oral sex and manual play can both be fun too. Just remember, oral carries risks of Sexually Transmitted Infections (STI's) too so you'll still need to use a condom or dental dam (square of latex) to cover the area. 

 

你信任和尊重你的伴侶，亦認為對方亦一樣嗎？ 

Do you trust and respect your partner, and think that they feel the same way about you? 

 

你有信心你可以堅持進行安全性行為嗎？在每一次的性行為，你都有機會懷孕或使人懷孕，或接觸到性病毒，包括首次性行為，因此安全的性行為很重要。 

Are you confident that you can insist on safe sex? You can get pregnant/get someone pregnant and/or contract STIs every time you have sex, including the first time. 


對於性行為的地點及時機，你感到愉快嗎？你的伴侶亦感到舒適嗎？ 

Do you feel happy with the location and timing? And does your partner feels the same way? 


你了解發生性行為後的後果嗎？而對方亦明白這一切嗎？如果明白的話，你認為你可以解決這些可能發生的後果嗎？ 

Are you aware of the possible outcomes of sex? And is the person you're considering having sex with? If so, do you feel ready to deal with any issues that may arise? 


你對於性行為有任何憂慮嗎？如果有，你曾經與你的伴侶討論過嗎？ 

Is there anything that scares you about having sex and, if so, have you discussed this with your partner? 


你希望進行性行為是因為你認為你已經準備好，還是害怕拒絕性行為會導致失去伴侶？ 

Do you want sex because you feel ready or because you're worried you may lose your partner if you don't? 


這一切感覺是對的嗎？你的內心是最值得傾聽的── 如果事情感覺不太對，在作一個錯誤決定之前，你可能需要再等多一點時間。 

Does it feel right? Your gut instinct is worth listening to - if something doesn't feel quite as it should be, you may want to wait a little longer before making a decision you might regret.  

 

“Do you feel ready to deal with any issues that may arise?”