選擇你的第一件性玩具 

Choosing your first Toy 

 

 

性玩具在人類性生活中愈來愈普遍。它能夠幫助你發現你的敏感地帶,同時亦為前戲增加新的刺激。當你選擇你的第一件玩具,即使你早已明白其安全指引,有時仍然很煩惱。以下是一些建議,能夠幫助你容易找到第一次適合你的性玩具。 

Toys are an increasingly common part of people's sex lives. They’re great for helping you discover where to find your own hotspots. And they can add exciting new dimension during foreplay. When it comes to choosing your first one, the choice can be intimidating, even if you already know the safety guidelines. These tips will help make choosing your first toy easier. 

 

震動:有些人喜歡震動的感覺;有些人初時覺得這種感覺不尋常,但慢慢就愛上這種感覺;有些人就真的不喜歡它。除非你嘗試過,否則你永遠不會知道你是那一類人。可是,你最好開始時先嘗試較溫和的震動器,一開始使用愈刺激的震動器可以令人愈受到驚嚇。一個基本子彈型的震動器是新手的好選擇。將震動程度調較至最輕微,如果你感到痛楚,把你的手在下面控制一下,或用布鋪在震動器上。如果你想它震動得更強,可以把程度提高。 

Vibration: Some people like vibration. Others find the sensation unusual at first but grow to love it and some people find it leaves them cold. Until you test it out you won't know which category you fit into. However, it's worth starting with a gentle vibe as the more intense ones can be a shock to the system at first. A basic bullet vibe is a great beginner's toy. Start with it on the mildest setting. If it feels too tingly, put your hand underneath it, or use it over the top of a sheet. If you'd rather have more buzz, just turn it up. 

 

尺寸:選擇尺寸不會過大的性玩具。玩具通常比真實的東西堅硬及密度更高,所以當伴侶認為玩具尺寸太大,你不必感到驚訝。 

Size: Choose a size that doesn't seem too intimidating. Toys are typically firmer and denser than the real thing, so don't be surprise if a toy the same size as your partner feels too big. 

 

電力:玩具可以透過電芯、充電器,甚至太陽能來供電。在購買之前請檢查清楚該玩具的電力來源,這樣就不會因為過程中不夠電力而煩惱。 

Power: Toys can be powered by batteries, charge through the mains or even solar powered. Check how a toy is powered before purchasing so you don't get stuck with a toy that uses hard-to-find battery sizes. 

 

謹慎選擇:使用玩具時,感到尷尬是很正常的,特別是新手。選擇一些較靜的玩具可以減少尷尬,而且現在已經有很多途徑能夠購買性玩具 ── 網上、街上都可以買得到。為什麼不由一些小型的,配有小環或按摩器,又或小型震動器開始?這些玩具都很適合新手使用,可以從以上挑選一些來試試水溫! 

Discretion: It's normal to be shy about using a toy, particularly if you're new to it. Picking a quiet toy can help make it less embarrassing. And there are now plenty of mainstream places to buy them – both online and on the high street. Why not also start off small, with a ring, a massager or mini vibrator? These are great first time sex toys for couples that want to test the water first before diving in. 

 

If it feels too tingly, put your hand underneath it, or use it over the top of a sheet."