如何與女性談論使用衛生套 

How to talk condoms with a woman 

 

 

你可能認為只有男性才會被別人要求使用衛生套,但有時候一些女性亦不希望男性使用它。現在就著手對付這個問題,令你自己保持安全吧 

You might think that men are the ones who need to be talked into using condoms, but some women can be just as bad. Tackle the condom question to keep yourself safe.  

 

如果一個女性說她不想你使用衛生套,你得小心。如果她對你這樣說,以前還對什麼人說過這樣的話呢?即使她沒有感染性病毒,你仍然需要問自己一個問題;你對對方意外懷孕作好準備了嗎? 

If a woman says she doesn't want to use a condom, it's not time to party. If she says it to you, who else has she said it to? Even if she doesn't have a Sexually Transmitted Infection (STI), – you also have to ask yourself if you’re ready to have unplanned pregnancy? 

 

使用衛生套顯示對你伴侶的尊重。將這個思想告訴她,如果你尊重她多於她尊重她自己,跟她發生性行為是個好的主意嗎 

Using a condom shows you respect your partner. Tell her this. If you respect her more than she respects herself, is sex really a good idea?       

 

衛生套可以令男性在性愛時更持久。告訴她你希望盡能力給予最大的快感,而衛生套亦可幫助達到快感 

Condoms can help men last longer during sex. Tell her you want to give her as much pleasure as you possibly can, and the condom helps. 

 

如果她希望可以與你的感覺更為親密,就告訴她無後顧之憂的安全性行為更令你對她的感覺更為親密 

If she says she wants to feel close to you, tell her that being able to relax and know sex is safe will make you feel much closer to her than worrying about the consequences otherwise. 

 

有一些衛生套是專為更好的性愛感覺而設計,如果對方不喜歡衛生套的感覺,嘗試凸點縲紋裝可以令她感受更好 

Some condoms are designed to make sex even better. Try a Mutual Climax condom if she says she doesn't like the way condoms feel. 

 

如果她堅持,你可以告訴她你不想令她有感染性病毒的風險,即使你過去只有一人為你進行口交,亦有可能接觸到性病毒 

Should she persist, tell her that you don't want to put her at risk of any STIs. Even if you've only had a blow-job from a partner in the past, there's a chance you could have contracted something. 

 

如果對於你堅持安全性行為而遭女性嘲笑你不夠勇敢,告於她你清楚甚麼是性愛責任,這是成熟的表現,事實上這才是一個男人應做的事。有少部份的女性對橡膠衛生套敏感,你可以使用不含橡膠的衛生套。 

If a woman says you're not a man if you don't have unprotected sex, tell her you're mature enough to know how to be sexually responsible – and that makes you much more of a man A small amount of women are allergic to latex condoms. However, you can buy latex-free condoms. Keep your condom tin stocked to avoid disappointment. 

 

如果女伴因為你堅持使用衛生套而拒絕與你發生性行為,這確實令人為難,但總有其他可以防止你感染性病毒及令別人意外懷孕,而又可以紓解你性慾的方法, 

If a woman refuses to let you use a condom, refuse to have sex. Yes, it might be hard (ahem) but there are other ways you can relieve your tension without risking an STI or unplanned pregnancy. 

 

擔心你堅持使用衛生套,會惹來壞名聲?只有那些不會互相尊重的女性才會叫你脫掉衛生套。成熟的女性將你的堅持視為寶物——除了安全以來,它亦可以帶來更多的樂趣 

Worried you'll get a reputation if you refuse to have sex without a condom? The only women you'll put off are ones who don't value mutual respect. Secure women will see it as an asset – and they are generally a lot more fun to go out with. 

 

Try a Mutual Climax condom if she says she doesn't like the way condoms feel.